Life of a Dominatrix

Fetish Weekend in Florida

2008-04-28T19:41:00.005-04:00

Ok, I have a confession. I have never set foot outside Canada. However, that will all change because I am going to the Fetish Factory's 13th Annual Fetish Weekend in Florida. I am super excited about this trip. I know it will be a start of more trips to come :)

There is still much to do, but thankfully the passport tidbit has been dealt with already.

But what to wear??? THAT is the most important question. What I do know is that my wardrobe for latex is lacking. *hint* :) Otherwise there is plenty of pvc and I have plenty of shoes and boots to go with my costumes.

To help offset my trip expenses, I have made some extra room in my schedule to take in some sessions. Be sure to book before May 22nd as I am leaving on that day and will come back May 26th.

If you cannot book a session but would still like to offer me a gift certificate, I shop at:

Il Bolero, 6846 StHubert, (514) 270-6065

Fetiche Store, 1323 Ste-Catherine E., (514)529-0808

Cruella, 63 Mont-Royal Est, (514)844-0167

Boutique Sexe Cite, 1821, Ste-Catherine Ouest, (514)937-3678 or
6325 Plaza St-Hubert, (514)277-5470

I am curious to see who else from Montreal is going to Florida.

Happy Whipping,

Domina Jade

Taking a Bow ... But never really gone

2008-04-14T14:03:00.005-04:00

There comes to a point in a pro-Domme's 'career' where she has to decide what are the priorities in her life. I have certainly come to that point. As much as I have enjoyed a lucrative short career as a professional Domme, I am excited to move onto other projects as an entrepreneur. I am stepping down as a Pro, but will still continue the BDSM lifestyle along with my play partner and fiance Master Tommi Gunn.

My thanks to my regular submissives who have made the experience all the more pleasurable. I have learn and progressed so much as a Mistress. My desire to play and improve will never really stop.

The dungeon will officially cease to exist as of July 1st. At that point I will no longer take in an new sessions. So take advantage, especially if you have been waiting to see me. Take note that my schedule is VERY VERY busy, you will need to reserve in advance by sending me your application form. Returning clients may call to make a reservation.

See you soon,
Domina Jade

p.s my official site www.DominaJade.ca will be converted into my blog for resources and personal stories. Don't worry, I will still have a voice in the fetish community.

April Bondage Special

2008-04-01T09:44:00.004-04:00

This month I want to practice Shibari and more intricate bondage techniques. I have a copy of Midori's book and will get the Knotty Boys when the Fetiche Store has it in stock again.

Please check out the schedule page before booking a session.

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Meanwhile check out Twisted Monk. They have some great intro to bondage videos.

Fetish Fools Ball 2008

2008-03-24T22:38:00.012-04:00

This year, Isabeau & Sebastien's Fetish Fools Ball was held at the Just For Laughs Museum on St. Laurent. I thought is was a great space, different from Bain Mathieu from previous years. We arrived at around midnight, leaving a mere 3 hours to play - minus 1 hour of meet n' greet.

I wore a Lolita black dress with red fishnets stockings from Cruella and killer PVC ankle boots with 6 inch heels from Stelly/Toby on St. Laurent. I must say that I was damn cute (never so innocent) that night. I opted out of the corset for comfort. However towards the end of the night my feet were aching so it was a trade-off.

We chose a relatively quiet corner. There were some great pieces of BDSM equipment and furniture at the Ball. Our little corner had a great kneeling bench from a converted barber platform/chair. I will want to add this type of bench to my private collection because it's just too cool.

The area had a greenish spotlight which did help us to see in the dark. However I think it would have been better to use normal white lighting because some of us can be a little blind without contacts or glasses. But it did the job and no misses.

The play area was all the way towards the back, sectioned off by a large curtain. I like the idea of separating the play space and the dance floor. There was a decent amount of space between the player and the spectators, especially in our section. I didn't dwell into the other areas because I had the perfect spot for flogging and paddling.

Speaking of paddles, I actually broke my favorite wooden paddle on my switch partner, Master Tommi Gunn. I guess the wood wasn't thick enough for his hard ass. We tend to play hard, so a new set of heavy duty toys will be needed soon. But dammit, that was my FAVORITE paddle. I even used it at our March performance at Club Sin.

Since I have been playing (mild play) with my client submissives and kinda neglecting my real play partner - I must admit that I am out of practice when it comes heavier scenes. So guess what we are doing all of this week. If you don't use it, you lose it.

So back to the party ..... I can't say that I really observed the party. When I a doing a scene, I ignore all else except my play partner. However I love the live sculpting section - we certainly do have a lot of talent in Montreal. It's a shame that we didn't get a chance to check out the other play furniture, but then I was quite content at using the kneeling bench. Heck we played for a full 2 hours on that thing, taking turns switching.

I enjoyed the evening. But next time we will arrive much earlier to take advantage of play, dance and mingling among our kinky friends.

Want a session? Follow the Rules

2008-03-05T01:11:00.004-05:00

So I get a call from a submissive this evening ... he didn't introduce himself except to say that he had seen me from a fetish party. What he actually wanted was the telephone number of another Mistress.

Now this Mistress happens to be a friend of mine, and I have no problems referring him to her. Except, he specifically asked for a number to call. And I know that she prefers correspondence via email, and doesn't disclose her number publicly.

When suggested, "you can go to her website and contact her there"

He said, "I don't like to use my internet - if I can't get number can you pass her my number instead?"

Um .... no.

First I am not a placement agency.

Second, if you are LAZY and don't want to use your internet then I am not going to help you to connect with another Mistress.

So what is the lesson here? Don't short-cut your way to the front of the line. If you are serious and genuine, then follow her rules of conduct and contact her the way she wants you to.

Hopefully, this submissive will learn and finally follow procedure. Otherwise I doubt he will have much luck getting a session.

Kinky strapon sex - Bend Over :)

2008-03-05T00:24:00.002-05:00

Love this video on Youtube.com .... which reminds me that I have a 2 hour strap-on special this month. Email me for more details.

Domina Jade

Performance at Club Sin - March 7th

2008-03-04T13:25:00.003-05:00

Mark your calendars, I have an upcoming performance at Club Sin on March 7th. I hope to see you there.

Domina Jade

Dominatrix video - The Hour CBC

2008-01-24T09:09:00.000-05:00

Here's a great video explaining what a Dominatrix does.

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Since my last rant, I have been pondering even leaving the business ... at least temporarily to pursue other projects. However, that would suck for my regular submissive clients who do enjoy domination for what it is.

I still stand by my opinions when I say, escort agencies that hire submissives and Dominatrix will eventually ruin the business here in Montreal. I am simply not going to play the catch up game. Even when I first started going Pro, I already had a good idea of what my values and ideals were. I knew what I would and would not do, and did not tolerate 'topping from bottom.'

My first experience was at a dungeon, but after 1 week I knew that I had to be Independent. I simply did not accept so called submissives expecting me to open my legs or show more because they are used to that type of behavior. If anything I was a lot rougher and even lectured them for being disrespectful towards a Mistress. Needless to say I didn't last long among the dungeon's clientel. But it wasn't a huge loss for me since they didn't stimulate my creativity and my desire to Dominate.

So I went solo and rented dungeons instead. I screened out people and charge whatever I want. Unlike the agencies, submissive cannot speak to the Mistresses. But when you are Independent, the submissive can contact the Mistress first hand either by phone or email. I find that when you know more about the sunmissives' background - it only helps to enhance the scene. I can take advantage of his dark desires, by teasing or tormenting him about it. When we BOTH enjoy the session, I am truly happy. If he explores new fetishes and happens to love it, even better.

I am going back to the days when I regarded Domination as a part-time hobby. It is something to do on the side while I concentrate on more important things like relearning a new skill for the job force, family, and inner peace. It's simply not worth the stress and ranting on something you cannot control. I am over that now.

Ahhhh. My head is clear.

Green tea is tempting me, I will go enjoy one right now. Until next time.

Domina Jade

Is it a Montreal thing?

2008-01-17T11:25:00.001-05:00

It's come to my attention that a lot of submissives AND Mistresses in Montreal are just full of crap. I am talking about the agencies that cheapen the Domination business and the submissives who flip from one Mistress to another.

I am sorry for those of you who are genuine and truly understand servitude, but a good number of subs out there who have contacted me for sessions, I'd say 75% either do not call back to confirm or do not know how to speak to address a Mistress properly and has the audacity to ask for 'extra' favors.

I'd like to hear from those submissives who do seek professional Mistresses about their thoughts on this.

While Montreal has a great Fetish Party scene - the same cannot be said about the pro-Dommes. I see more and more young and untrained Mistresses out there who think that all you have to do is hold a whip and be a bitch. It is unfortunate to see CMF closing its doors for good on February 1st, while other cheap 'dungeons' and agencies spring up to replace the reputable ones.

I went on craigslist the other day and saw an ad about recruiting Mistresses - no experience required. And do not even get me started with my critique on the website and the girls' profiles. WTF, since when has Mistresses turned into such a commodity that you can just recruit anyone off the street - which I see all to often these days.

It's been such a long time that I rant like this, but it's incredibly frustrating to see Massage Parlors, Escorts, and Strippers who claim to be Dominatrix as well. If you happen to be in the lifestyle and actually practice in real life - fine do your thing. However it pisses me off royally to see the inexperienced 'Mistress' screw up on a client leaving him with a bad impression on this 'industry' of professional Dommes.

Like I said, is it a Montreal thing? So what's my beef? Do not claim to be a Dominatrix if you have not been trained properly, do not practice the lifestyle for real, and have no imagination to control the scene without resorting to sex because that's what you are use to.

And to the less than genuine submissives out there, you know who you are and have been blacklisted, stop asking for sexual favors when it's clearly stated NO, and stop calling for information when you have no intention of booking.

Yeah I know, I might be offending a few people right now. Bite me - I happen to bite a lot harder and charge $200 for doing so.

FemDomme Society Dinner - February 9th

2008-01-17T10:05:00.001-05:00

Come join us at the FemDomme Society Dinner at Hot & Spicy.

It's a yearly event which falls on Chinese New Year. And 2008 is Year of the Rat.

For more details about reservations, please visit the link below:

http://societynewyeardinner-dj.eventbrite.com

A toast!

2008-01-17T08:56:00.000-05:00

Celebrate My 27th Birthday

2008-01-15T18:56:00.000-05:00

My birthday is on January 19th, and I'd like you all to come celebrate with me at The Loft at 1410 Wolfe Street, corner Ste Catherine.

There is no need to bring any gifts, however if you do, I enjoy gift certificates to Il Bolero, Sexe Cite, Fetiche Store, and anything that might contribute to my play space. You get a complimentary 'thank you' of 27 spankings or canings on each cheek :)

But just be there to say hello and Happy Birthday to Me ;)

If you are out of town and cannot attend, give me a call on Niteflirt instead. I will be on the phones Jan 15-16-17-18.

See you soon,

Domina Jade

CLUB SIN - September Photos

2008-01-07T10:39:00.000-05:00

Master Gunn and I had performed a show just after Fetish Weekend. Thank you Fetish Lover for taken these pictures.

We will have another performance soon. Stay tuned for the date.

Domina Jade

Couple Strap-on Session

2008-01-05T02:41:00.000-05:00

Before Christmas, I have fun offering a session to a couple. Him, a french Canadian and Her, a petite Asian. Her name also happened to be Jade. Actually 'Jade' is known to be middle names just like mine. So it's no surprise.

It was her first time seeing a Domination session. slut leo encouraged her to be commanding and to treat him like a .... of course a slut. He had the priviledge of serving us both tea, massaging our feet, getting whipped and we fucked his slutty little ass-hole.

I wore my leather harness and had on a gorgeous 7 or 8 inch cock. I demonstrated why men love to get fucked from behind. Little slut leo was getting wet in no time. Once I knew his rectum was enlarged, I then had the other Jade continue on. In fact, it was her first time using the strap-on on someone. She did it like a pro. And I am sure that her next shopping spree with slut leo is for a strap-on.

I enjoy offering couple sessions. Especially ones where the female is experiencing Domination for the first time. I look forward to seeing them both again.

Thank you slut leo for writing this testimonial:

"i bought my Girlfriend a little whip last year noticed that evil streak in Her eyes as She tried it on me- i saw Domme in Her.

This year for christmas, i offered Her a session with Domina Jade who gave my Girlfriend a crash course in Dominating a male. i found myself serving Both Goddess tea, naked, wearing a humbler. i got spanked harshly, raped by a huge strapon both by Domina Jade and my girlfriend under Her guidance - We all had a great time!

My Gilrfriend and i were really happy about our experience with Domina Jade. We are looking forward our next session. slut leo."

Green Rope Corset

2008-01-02T14:55:00.000-05:00

Thank you to Dunter, a talented rope bondage enthusiast, for this rope corset.

Also thank you to Mistress Jade Dragon for taking the pictures at The Loft in Fall 2007.

Happy New Year 2008

2008-01-01T23:00:00.000-05:00

Oh what a great start to the New Year 2008. My partner Master Tommi Gunn, submissive francois and I went to a private play party for New Years Eve. The party was hosted by Mistress Yvanka. Her play space was an in an open concept loft with high ceilings, brick walls and plenty of BDSM equipment to use. It was a great dungeon to play in.

We arrived just 7 minutes before the countdown. I still had to get fitting into my PVC corset. But made it on time to spank my submissive francois along with the 10 second countdown to the New Year.

After mingling and wishing everyone Happy New Year and hugging my very close friends Mistress Jade Dragon and Sir Marc, it was back to business of torturing my submissive with the help of Master Gunn. The cheeks got to a rosy shade pretty quickly, however.

Master Gunn and I tagged teamed at flogging, spanking and whipping my submissive. At one point I teased sub francois with my fingers in his mouth while Master Gunn warmed up s.f's ass cheeks.

Prior to the party, all three of us had gone to Il Bolero for some last minute shopping. I wanted to get a hood for s.f to wear. We chose a heavy leather hood which came in two layers. The inner layer covered the face except for the eyes, mouth and nose holes. The outer layer had two flaps which can be zipped up to cover the face completely.

I LOVE this hood because of the sensory deprivation of sight and total confinement of the head. The submissive really has to concentrate and trust the Mistress leading the way. Sound is amplified because his ears work harder to hear through the thick leather. And finally when both his wrists are tied to his leather body harness, he feels helpless and vulnerable.

S.f. took a hard beating from the both of us. And he bears the marks to prove it. (He also had to endure a much awaited caning the following day) With the large wooden paddle in my hand I had the pleasure of pummeling s.f's ass. The paddle itself is light weight with mini holes drilled through. What this does is to enhance speed and add more sting. At one point I hit him so hard that his knees literally dropped to the floor. I pulled him up from his harness and continued with his punishment.

Once the play was over and s.f had his cool down. I left him in the care of Mistress Jade Dragon and Mistress Malycia while Master Gunn and I continued with OUR play session up on the second floor mezzanine.

Both Master Gunn and I are switches to each other. We both enjoy receiving and giving pain. Personally, I believe that everyone has a Dominant and submissive side. It's just that one is stronger than the other. We are both more Dominant. But do allow myself to exhibit that submissive side even in public because I am just as happy feeling in control and out of control. There use to be conflict within myself about showing my vulnerable side so openly ... but my experiences with Master Gunn has given me even more strength and has me pushing my boundaries even further. In my case, this even helps me to become a better Mistress onto others because I do have a better understanding of what the submissive feels. However, I submit ONLY to Master Gunn.

I realize now looking back to my first posting in 2005 that I had truly evolved. It's really amazing how my life has unfolded so far. And I look forward to new adventures in 2008.

Many spankings for the New Year.
Happiness and Good Health to ALL.

xoxo
Domina Jade & Master Tommi Gunn

Photos by Sir Marc

Have a Kinky XXXmas!

2007-12-25T03:36:00.000-05:00

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all my loyal subjects.

I will resume taking sessions on December 26th. You still have a couple of days left to reserve a session before 2007 ends. Same day appointments require 2-3 hours notice.

My strap-on and other evil devices await.

xoxo

Domina Jade

www.DominaJade.ca
+1.514.907.9596

DominaJade v.3 is finally DONE!

2007-12-20T15:37:00.001-05:00

Oh my aching back .... but it's worth it.

So my site is mostly completely. I spent most of yesterday designing the site up until 5am this morning. I can't wait to take a shower and be fresh again.

I am still tweaking a bit and I see some errors. I will be fixing those soon. But at least the majority is complete and I am pretty happy with the outcome.

Learning CSS coding was not easy. But future updates will be much easier.

All feedback and comments are welcome.

Domina Jade

Mistress Confined??

2007-12-13T21:54:00.000-05:00

Nah ... don't think so. But here's a photo of me taken this summer.

2007-12-12T10:47:00.000-05:00

Yes I know .... it's been much too long. Don't worry I am still a part of the scene. In fact I am so busy with sessions and fetish parties that I don't have time to write. Or, when I do - I don't know where to start.

The month of November has been hectic for me. From making videos, taking live sessions and tormenting submissives to attending parties. I have been one busy Mistress.

I had a session with TJ, who took a mental caning from me. We recorded the entire 3 hour session on tape and from the laptop. The video footage is being edited and will be ready in January. Be prepared to see pain and suffering - it's the real deal. During this session I really pushed TJ's limits ... there were screams and tears. But I continued on using a variety of different implements to mark his body black and blue. I felt a real connection that he not only did it to push himself but to also do it for me.

I learned to do even more intricate bondage. Now I want to get a bondage bed specifically used to secure my submissives so tightly that they cannot move one inch. Working on it ....

I cannot wait to have me own place which will be ready in January instead of December as previously scheduled. It's a smaller place than what normally I use ... but completely mine. This new location is near the Olympic Stadium. As well I am borrowing another dungeon for the time being in the Snowdom area. Yes I do consider myself a nomad at this point.

I keep saying that I am working on revamping my website ... but yes it's a work in process. There will be new photos and videos, and a Double Domme section with a few select Mistresses that I know. I can't wait.

Anyways, that's all for now.

Domina Jade

Session Review

2007-11-08T12:12:00.000-05:00

I had a very intense humiliation session back in October which involves verbal humiliation, penis torture, spitting, degradation, bondage and a very nice kick to the balls.

Thank you david for writing the review on your site.

Click here to read more.

If you had a session with me and wrote a testimonial please leave your comment with the review link. Thank you.

NEW!!!!! Caning Video

2007-11-08T09:12:00.000-05:00

Hello, As you know I just LOVE to cane my submissives. I was caning subp in one of my sessions when I remembered having my laptop nearby. So here we have an impromptu webcam video of the session. The original is 30 minutes long. Please note that I will not be putting it on sale, rather it's a preview of my Caning Special Tuesday when you book a live session with me. Enjoy!

(Editing by Slippy Productions)

Thank you subp for allowing me to video tape you. You were a real trooper for taking one hundred lashes. He not only took my bamboo cane but also my wooden paddles, rubber stick, floggers and more. By the end of the session his leathery ass turned a nice shade of dark red and blue.

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Montreal's Premier Asian Mistress
www.DominaJade.ca

Pushing Our Limits

2007-11-01T16:09:00.000-04:00

What a month! Seems like my caning special Tuesdays have stirred a bit of an interest. In fact I am working on a 10-15 sec clip for you to view .... when my updated site is complete.

I have enjoyed pushing numerous submissives, one or two even to tears.

Actually I want to share a session that I had with T.J. He's the one in the picture with the caning marks that I had shown some month ago.

Sometimes the most intense sessions are the ones where I am not in 'Domme' gear. I am talking about the spontaneous because I am in the mood moments. What's special about this session was that I not only pushed T.J to flowing tears but I even pushed myself as a Mistress.

I have no problems in pushing the limits of submissives that I come to see me in session. However the emotions that I feel is different when the person you play with also happens to be very close to you. At that point, I find myself on the cautious side not to harm him. Obviously you treat a submissive differently when it's someone you know versus someone you see as a client.

But that also means that I am not letting myself go. However that changed when I decided to go further and really let him feel the pain, the tears and welts across his ass. That meant my hand was going to hurt as well. But it was all worth it.

I have never had such a workout spanking his bottom with my bare hands before T.J. My hands turned bright red from all the hard slapping. It took several days before the buzzing feeling subsided. Looks like I will be wearing gloves next time, or perhaps use the paddle ;)

So what did we do? I flogged him, choked him, spanked him, bound him up, caned him and tortured his balls. I discovered an intense sadistic side of myself. I already like to see submissive suffer for me. But it was more satisfying knowing that he had never been pushed like this from anyone before. Likewise, I had never pushed myself as a Mistress nor had such an intense session before him.

It was truly music to my ears to hear him scream out in anguished pain. And his red teary eyes looking back at me as if to say .... I am yours. And yes he is mine.

So I take that experience with me everytime I have a session with someone new. I won't necessarily bring someone to tears immediately ... but I won't hesitate let myself go when the moment is right.

Chastity Devices

2007-10-09T14:18:00.000-04:00

So who wants to volunteer?

Yet another debate over pro-Dommes

2007-10-02T16:00:00.000-04:00

People will always have their own opinions about pro-Dommes. Some say that we are not "real" Mistress because of the tribute in question, or that pro Dommes are actually submissive because they cater to men who want to be dominated. I see this topic debated over and over again is discussion forums such as CollarMe, my blog and now my Yahoo 360 account (not often used)

So Fluff Daddy Whorebucks says, "You do realize dear Domina Jade that to dominant for money as a 'pro' you are ironically sexually serving your clients - a submissive act in and of itself. Don't get me wrong - it's just peachy to 'assertively' sexually serve for money as a dominant as long as you sincerely realize you it is an act of submission;-]"

To which I reply, "Fluff Daddy - Now who says there is any sex involve with my professional domination? As for real life S/M scenes do you not also negotiate what a submissive is interested in and what his limits are? Same goes for pro sessions. However I still decide what I want to do with the submissive. You can say what you want about the pro-Dommes but it's a "service" that will be needed as long as there are male submissives without a Mistress. Ask any of my submissive clients and they'll tell you that even though they pay for a session, I remain in control and there is no Topping from bottom."

Okay so my submissive clients will let me know what type of fetish they want to explore, what their limits are and what they fantasize about. But do you not also fill out a list when meeting a non-pro Mistress for the first time? This is called the negotiation process to determine whether or not a submissive is suitable for the Mistress. Although I am a professional Mistress and 'cater' to submissives I still make sure that I am doing things that "I" truly enjoy.

But it is how Fluffy regards professional domination as a sexual act. Let me clarify .... There is NO sex involve in any of my professional sessions. And I think that's where the misconception lies. Sure there will always be a few sketchy Mistresses out there who do offer but I guess that will be her choice. However the majority of pro-Dommes are very strict about the no sex rule.

To become a professional Dominatrix is your personal choice. Just like someone who wants to be a masseuse, escort, or whatever fancies you. I am happy to be who I am today but I will be damned to let someone else Label me submissive even though I am not. Switch, maybe ... submissive no.

One last thing about grammar (HUGE pet peeve) You do realize dear Domina Jade that to dominant for money should read You do realize dear Domina Jade that to DOMINATE for money

Okay that's it for now.

Domina Jade

What's Kinky with Dr. Laurie Betito

2007-09-19T13:16:00.000-04:00

Mark Friday, September 21st on your calendar because I will guest speak with Mistress Vanisha on Dr. Laurie Betito's Passion radio show. The segment will talk about what is the definition of being kinky, how one becomes a pro-Domme and more. Friday's show will broadcast in Toronto however you can go to Newstalk 1010 CFRB website to listen over the internet live.

Dr. Laurie Betito takes your intimate calls about love, sex and relationships on PASSION, Monday though Friday 10 pm - 11 pm on Newstalk 1010 CFRB.

Dr. Laurie is a Psychologist and Sex Therapist in private practice. She joined the Standard Radio family about 18 years ago when she co-hosted a show on Montreal's MIX 96 called "The Loveline". She joined CJAD 800 in Montreal 9 years ago with her own nightly talk show. Montrealers have been getting the best sex-ed ever since. Passion is the only show of its kind in town. Each Saturday night she takes on a different issue facing couples, singles, and teens. From aphrodisiacs to zoophilia, Dr. Laurie covers all the bases. She shies away from nothing. Some of her guests have included porn stars, lap dancers, and tantric sex instructors. But if it matters to your or your body, Dr. Laurie can make you feel comfortable talking about it... sexual dysfunction, infidelity, teen sex, Dr. Laurie gives her advice on any problem troubling your heart. She offers her opinions on a wide range of topics. Tune in to Passion and get first hand experience.

Intense Spanking & Caning Session

2007-09-18T22:50:00.000-04:00

Day 1

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Join my Jade's Worship Club

2007-09-11T16:59:00.000-04:00

So I figure that it's time to set up a group all about ME :)

What should you expect?? Monthly photo updates, reviews, session stories, events calendar and little contests. It's more interactive and there will be plenty of discussions. So do yourself a favor and join right now - it's FREE.

p.s I am still building the group with content. Be patient since I am also busy with my life as a sexuality adviser, pro-Domme and events planner.

Subscribe to Jade's Worship Club

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Whipping session with T.J

2007-09-10T12:35:00.000-04:00

I am so proud of T.J for taking a good ass whopping from me. Here are the photos taken the following day.

New Photo Teaser

2007-09-09T17:41:00.000-04:00

I am currently in the process of updating my photo gallery and website. But in the meantime here are a few photo teasers.

Enjoy!
Domina Jade

Performance at Club Sin

2007-09-07T02:10:00.000-04:00

Come see me perform live at:

Club Cleopatra at 1230 St. Laurent Blvd, 2nd floor
Friday September 7th, 2007

Doors open at 10pm and tickets are $10

Show starts at around midnight so be there earlier.

Check my previous photos here

Bal Erotique Pic

2007-08-30T17:03:00.000-04:00

I can't wait to get body painted again. Thanks Remy

Copy Cats = Questionable Intelligence??

2007-08-28T10:47:00.000-04:00

I really don't know how anyone can be so dishonorable to copy someone else's web content. Of course I am talking about my website and having some pages copied and pasted word for word onto another LOCAL "Mistress" site. Did you think that I would not know about it??? I randomly check on the directories of who's new and what's happening in the fetish scene. So of course when I came across www.dominatrixjaye.com and saw so many similarities I emailed her with a warning:

August 15th, 2007

Hi Jaye

My name is Domina Jade, you probably know me from my website www.dominajade.ca which you have blatantly copied and pasted a whole lot of text from. I am giving you 24 hours to either come up with your own words or take the copied text out completely.

Pages in question from http://www.dominatrixjaye.com:

Rules and especially Services page when you say.

"Note: Although Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism (BDSM) may be considered erotic in nature it does not lead to prostitution!!! Under NO circumstance will I engage in sex, oral sex, intimate body worship, incest, bestiality, permanent bodily harm, non-consentual activity or any unlawful acts. I may at my discretion allow you self administered release. However if the end result is only for sexual gratification and not for the sake of BDSM then please look elsewhere.

New applicatants should check out the Appointment page before setting setting up an appointment. As mentioned earlier, I am very particular in those wishing to join my growing stable of submissives. I prefer to have deep and personal experiences through my sessions. As such, not all newcomers will suit my needs and demands. If you want to make sure that we are compatible before meeting then I suggest that you call me on Niteflirt."

I can understand finding inspiration in other sites. I know that I always do my research, however, I do not tolerate word for word plagiarism. I hope that you will take this seriously. I have put a lot of effort into making my site. It is not respectful to steal content without proper credit given.

Regards,

Domina Jade

I gave her a proper warning and a chance to fix her site. So when her website was down for a couple of days thereafter I naturally assumed that she was heeding my advice and putting things into her own words. Good girl.

Then I get this email from her:

August 21st, 2007

sorry, i told my webmaster to create something as an example of what was written. It was just an example of what I had in mind.

I apologize, i didnt evenm know he just copied word for word. I will make sure he changes it.

Thanks for letting me know

Sure no problems Jaye, I am pretty understand BUT the problem is I checked today and surprise surprise, NOTHING was changed on your website.

I see that as a huge problem for me. Now I know that you might be somewhat of a smart cookie however copying and pasting content that is not yours will certainly give me doubts. What you have done not only says that you are not creative enough to think on your own but also I question your skill as a "Mistress" as you claim to be.

See what happens when you tick a more experienced and well-known Mistress off? Seems that my goodwill towards you is all for naught. And now people know what a sham you are.

Regards,

Domina Jade

Tuesday Specials - 99cents per minute

2007-08-28T09:59:00.000-04:00

Today is Tuesday and you know what that means. For all you cheapies it's the perfect time to give me a call because it's only 99cents per minute. Take advantage to be trained as a submissive or to get your dosage of Jade humiliation.

Rules:

All calls made today or on any special listing is 10 minutes. No excuses. If you fail to honor this rule then you are blocked. So set a time where you will not be interrupted before calling me.

I want to start training submissives long term, so be prepared to disclose more information about yourself.

you are not allowed to masturbate or cum unless I instruct you to do so.

Feel free to send you your weeny dick pics before calling.

Have your toys ready because I WILL use your body by torturing or tease & denial.

Have a formal introduction and recite: "Hello Mistress Jade, my name is ........ and I am at your command." Followed by any compliments you choose and then ask how you may be of service to me.

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Basically only call me if you are truly serious about serving me. This no longer just fantasy role-play. I will use you to my own advantage. Be honored that I allow some time for you.

1-800-TO-FLIRT Ext: 0696571
All NEW callers will receive 3 Free minutes.
Check my schedule or to place a call on Niteflirt

Domina Jade
www.dominajade.ca

jerked chicken, strangulations and golden showers Oh My!

2007-08-22T16:02:00.000-04:00

Last night I had a great evening with sub_francois. We went out for some really good Caribbean food .... Mmmmm I recommend the jerk chicked at Mango Bay. "Simply fuckin delicious" is what I say.

There was the topic of stragulation that came up. Actually I brought that up because I enjoy the act of strangulation play. Of course one must be very careful with this type of edge play. But I get a kick out of seeing a submissive struggling for air. I love seeing my hand wrap around someone's neck and see them gasping.However keep in mind that conscent is always required and talk about it BEFORE engaging in this type of play.

After dinner, we went to Sexe Cite to check out a few outfits. sub_francois promised me shopping so that's what we did. I opted for a lovely red and black pvc underbust corset. It looked stunning - I am debating whether I should wear sans bra for the Fetish Weekend though. Either way it looks great with or without a bra.

What followed was an ass whooping session back at the hotel. I made sure that he would feel it the next day. So?? Am I right francois >:) I went from my bare hands to my favorite leather flogger. I love it when the ass jiggles a bit. It makes for a beautiful slapping sound.

sub_francois was lucky though. He got to see me prance around the hotel room with a pair of black thongs and the underbust corset ... no bra. Of course I did cover my nipples with red tape shaped into an "x". He shouldn't be THAT lucky, hehe.

There was plenty of rope play as well of the torture of his genitals. Oh how I love CBT action. Seeing him whimper in pain as I either slap or whip his balls. Although he had a different reaction if I did the same to his penis. If anything, that made him so much harder. Mmmmmm I wonder why? Maybe it was how I wound the rope real tight around his penis or that he just enjoyed any sort of touch.

After the session I was absolutely tired. It was going on past midnight afterall. I took a sip of water, then sub_francois asked permission to drink as well. What from my glass? No, but he joked that he'd drink from the toilet bowl. I chuckled with him
and allowed him his water.

Funny thing is sometimes jokes do seem like good ideas. So after I took a piss, I called sub_francois before flushing. I decided to dunk his head into my pissed in water. I thought that was such a hoot. While his head was still in the toilet I gave it a flush. We both thought that was hilarious.

Well I had a lot of fun. Thank you francois for entertaining me. I look forward to seeing you again very soon.

Domina Jade

Robots & Dolls pics

2007-08-21T17:20:00.001-04:00

More to come, stay tuned for Bal Erotique as well.

Re-Cap of Censored Festival

2007-08-15T11:53:00.001-04:00

Whew! What a busy month July and August has been for me.

Actually July was my lazy month. Then by August I was busy with Censored Festival and sessions. I am pretty happy with the turnout of CF considering that it was their first year. I am looking forward to Censored Festival 2008.

I performed with Marianne Cheesecake which was an part of an act in Fetish Theater: The Evolution of Fetish. I have to say that the year 2007 is a year of trying new things. It was the first time for me to really perform on stage in front of so many people. I'd have to say that I am very proud of our act. As soon as the video has been edited I will post it on my blog.

I had given two workshops, Introduction to Anal Play and Good Girls Guide to Dirty Talking. I found that not enough promo were given to the workshops, but my small group allowed for more intimate discussions. It was also my first time presenting a workshop so I guess the small group was not so intimidating. Overall I really enjoyed doing the research and educating people. I am just wondering if there will be an interest on workshops for newbie submissives. We're talking learning about behavior protocols, how to approach a Mistress, how to set up your first pro-Domme session, understanding why you enjoy submission, etc. Feel free to comment.

Let's not forget the parties. I went to Melt, Bal Erotique and Robots and Dolls. All were AWESOME.

Melt which was held at Club Sky is a perfect mix of great music and play area. Upstairs on the mezzanine was the lounge where people can watch the dancers below. There was a wood frame for some bondage however I felt the the lighting was incredible poor. Hence not too many people took advantage of that play space. Which is a shame really. Hopefully Isabeau of Fetiche School will consider better lighting next time.

The play area downstairs at Melt was fixed so that players would be on one end and spectators are on the other end. There was enough room to move about without too much of bumping into each other. We have the two sided cross, spanking bench, kneeling bench, and the wheel.

My best kink friend Mistress Jade Dragon played with candles and wax over her saran wrapped submissive, toriko. He was absolutely bound while Mistress J.D poured hot wax over his slim body. She makes wax play so look so sensual and beautiful. This is especially true when she flicks wax according to the music.

I played with subtj on the spanking bench and the turning wheel. But that night I felt like a voyeur so I allowed both Mistress Jade Dragon and Sir Master MArc to play with my boytoy. It really pleased me to see two of my close friends making good use of my submissive. I might put him to good use elsewhere, such as the next FemmeDomme Society event.

The following week was Bal Erotique which was held at Club Opera. The whole event was absolute eye candy as we had performances from the Pin Up Saints throughout the whole night. There was never a shortage of sexy people dancing to great music. Plenty of caressing and fondling. What a night that was. Can't wait for next years Bal.

Then of course Robots & Dolls event at the Just for Laughs Museum. I was dressed up as a Robot/Doll with the help of artist Remy who airbrushed some cool designs on my body. So basically I only wore heels and gold lamé shorts and nothing else :) Be sure to check out the photos taken by SlippyProductions :

Photo Gallery 1
Photo Gallery 2

Well that's all for now. Be sure to tune in for more photos and the video of Fetish Theater. Gotta go now, I have a session at 4pm.

Lotsa whips,

Domina Jade

The Landlord

2007-07-17T15:24:00.000-04:00

Totally unrelated to bdsm but I think this video is soooo cute that I had to pass on. Enjoy!

The Landlord

Auto Phone Sex

2007-07-17T15:05:00.000-04:00

Auto Phone Sex

Pro-Domme from now on

2007-06-28T12:45:00.000-04:00

I have come to the realization that no matter what full-time job that I take besides domination I won't be happy. Sure a regular job will promise me security but it also brings in many hassles such grouchy bosses, deadlines, pressures, stress and somtimes random stupidity from other co-workers. So I am saying to hell with all that. I am going Pro-Domme full-time. I have joined forces with my good friend Ciara from DomAssist, who will be booking sessions and taking calls. Feel free to call her at (514)991-7003 if you have any questions.

However I want to clear up that my reasons for going professional Dominatrix isn't just for money. It's a way to completely express myself and to really practice my skill and talents. Everytime I whip you, tie you up, tease or try new torture methods
then my inner Domme grows stronger and stronger. I LOVE the fetish world. So why not be a part of that world on a regular basis. Now, you get to be a part of my world now that my time is not so limited. Visit my website and fill an application now.

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Mark your calendar for my first on-stage show with Contessa Alura and Mistress Elsa at Club Sin on July 6th. Tickets are on sale right now.

Webcam with AsianRaveGirl

2007-05-10T09:11:00.000-04:00

Okay, my niteflirt and webcam is back in action. And to top it off I am also offering duo webcam with the lovely AsianRaveGirl

Here are a few pics taken a few months ago.

Fetish Friday

2007-05-10T01:48:00.000-04:00

Oh wow, it's been since February that I had last posted. Missed me??? You had better ;)

Well life happens especially during the winter. I tend to veg more so there's not much action going on with exception to Bain Mathieu parties. But now that the weather is getting a lot nicer I find myself more active.

I went to Fetish Friday to see Mistress Mai and Master Luk perform a fetish act. It was really good, included lots of latex of course. If you want to see the photos be sure to check out www.ClubSin.ca

I also have a few photos of myself there as well. But I will post them here:

Stay tuned for more photos as I am planning of doing a couple more photoshoots.

Domina Jade

Email Blips

2007-02-04T23:10:00.000-05:00

My hosting company had changed servers which regretfully led to me not getting my e-mails.

So if you were one of such person(s) who had emailed me using appointment(at)dominajade(dot)ca and never gotten a response, I was not ignoring you. Now that the problem has been rectified, you can go ahead and re-send me your application form. I should be able to respond back within 48-72 hours as I am catching up ... slowly.

Regards,
Domina Jade

FemDomme Society Dinner

2007-02-04T21:57:00.000-05:00

This year our 2nd annual FemDomme Society dinner will once again be held at Hot n' Spicy right along Decarie. We will be celebrating the Chinese New Year - Year of the Pig.

The main organizers are HeadMistress Jade Dragon, Lady Nikki and myself. Please come join us for dinner and meet new and already known faces. You must reserve in advance HERE. For my loyal blog readers who are coming to dinner please use discount code "jadesfriend" when you reserve online.

Date: February 18th, 2007
Time: 6:00-10:00pm

Location: Hot n' Spicy Restaurant
7373 Decarie Blvd.
(Corner Jean Talon, across from Namur Metro)
Montreal, QC
H4P 2G8

~Domina Jade

2007-02-03T22:22:00.000-05:00

I've got a nasty sore throat. Bloody hell. This morning I had to take Buckleys which is some nasty shit, but actually works. As you can tell right now, I am cranky. Having a flaming throat gets you that way especially when I cannot even speak properly anymore. My voice is either too low or I completely lose it to a minor squeak.

It was my day off and I was called in to do a duo session with Mistress Kali over at CMF. I really really want to take my mind off my misery and just spank or flog away. Unfortunately the submissive is a wimp at pain. Boohoo for me. Of course I respected his limits and restrained myself. He was more into tease and denial.

Which Kali and I were discussing prior to the session, what is considered tease and denial?? Being professional Mistresses Kali and I do not offer any sort of sexual touching. So with that in mind, what do you consider a tease??

I know that I can tease and deny a submissive over the phone pretty well because I can be quite explicit with phone sex. However in person sessions are quite different. Tonight I teased him a bit with my feet, pretended to fuck him from behind by dry humping (clothes on of course) even aroused him quite a bit by wrapping his dick with a nylon flogger.

So my question is, what you are seeking tease and denial from a pro-Domme, what is your definition?

Weekend Shopping Spree

2007-01-22T20:31:00.000-05:00

This past saturday slave georges and I went out shopping for a new outfit to wear. I wanted to make sure that I looked stunning (as if I don't already :P) at Fetish School 3.0 party held at Bain Mathieu this Jan. 26th.

First we went to Cruella on Mont Royal. They carry mostly Lip Service fetish wear. I tried on several pencil skirts and pvc tops. Unfortunately a lot of the clothes are not made for my body type i.e extremely curvy, so I would not recommend going if you happen to have big boobs and a nice size butt. The designs on many of the clothes were interesting however it was made with skinny girls in mind. I finally picked out a pvc pencil skirt with corset style closing in the back and kick ass hosiery that looks like thigh high stocking but had corset style snaps in the back.

Next we went to Il Bolero which is located on St Hubert. Il Bolero has a great selection of PVC fetish wear. They are pretty much stocked up on lingerie, costumes for role-play, pvc and they even have some bdsm toys. I will admit that it is a bit pricey, but they made they own pvc gear and can make alterations. I had ripped one of my pvc tops but I was able to have it repaired. Well I was spoiled with a lovely pvc bustier with red accents and metal button snaps on the side.

Lastly we stopped at Go West, a shoe store also located on St Hubert. We arrived 10 minutes before closing. I love this store because it has great selection on heels and boots priced between $20-$50. If you are looking for leather cowboy boots then you certainly get selection here. Of course cowboy boots will be a lot pricier. I selected a pair of open toe red pumps and calf length boots which have lots of folds. The red pumps will go with my outfit.

I enjoy going out shopping with submissives. Of course it goes both ways because the lucky sub gets to see me model in fetish wear and help my put on sexy shoes.

Now, I just need some new toys ;)

xoxo
Domina Jade

New audio sample - dildo fucking

2007-01-19T22:41:00.001-05:00

I decided to record my side of a dildo fucking phone session. Of course this is after I made him paddle himself 26 times and one for good luck on each cheek. Even though I wasn't the one spanking, I made sure that it hurt.

Imagine how he'd feel sitting on a chair and a dildo stuck up his ass *evil grin*

Enjoy
Domina Jade

AUDIO CLIP
It's not the best recording (static) since it was taken from my MP3 player.

Canal Full of Poo

2007-01-12T00:00:00.000-05:00

This is the shit!!!! Fuckin hilarious.

Enjoy,
Domina Jade

Everything Fetish in 1 minute

2007-01-11T23:30:00.000-05:00

LOVE this commercial. I was laughing my head off the whole time. Especially "Tea Bagging"

Enjoy
Domina Jade

So THIS is skill

2007-01-07T23:13:00.000-05:00

ROFL!!!!!

"Go fuck yourself!" Has new meaning.

What's your skill??

2007-01-07T12:45:00.000-05:00

Simple question really. What are your skills?

"I am open minded and I am good with my tongue"

WRONG!!! Do not use "my tongue" as a skill. I don't fuckin care if you make the Queen of England call out your name. Your tongue will NOT go near me. Except perhaps to clean the crud off my shoe and THAT would be all.

I can shoe shine your boots till you can see your reflection, I can make you floggers and paddles, I am a web designer, I am a very good cook, I can clean so well that even Martha Stewart will be impressed, I am a huge painslut - THOSE are skills.

Fine you can use your tongue in many non-sexual ways i.e clean my boots or the toilet. However if that's the first "skill" that you utter to me then 99.99% it's a sexual thought. And I do not care about that. Well okay I do - but I don't mix business with that sort of pleasure.

Anyways that's the end of my rant today - unless some other bozo comes up with another "skill" I would not approve of.

~Domina Jade

Nothing like a good sweat

2007-01-07T00:29:00.000-05:00

Like any New Years resolution I want to get into tip top shape. However I must admit that I truly need someone to kick me into shape .... and no I am not asking for volunteers. But I need to be motivated and pushed if I want to go to the gym at least three times a week.

But imagine this scenario. I have been playing it in my head of what would make an interesting scene. A submissive who is a professional trainer that accompanies me to the gym. We work up a good sweat doing the threadmill, stationary bikes, stairmaster and even weights. He of course still serves me by bringing my water bottle and wiping my face with a towel when I say "Fetch!" or "Wipe!" Hehe.

However the real fun begins afterwards when I am home all drenched in sweat and smelling of b.o. That's when I make him worship my stinky feet as I trample over his face, have him sniff my armpits, lick my ass .... haha yeah right. Keep dreaming. It's more like I take of my dirty panties and make him wear it over his head.

Even without the ass kissing, I am sure it's submissive heaven to serve me this way. What do you think?? Think you can handle this humiliation?

~Domina Jade

Happy New Year 2007!!!

2007-01-03T12:23:00.000-05:00

To view another slide show click here

Merry Christmas

2006-12-23T13:28:00.000-05:00

In case I don't blog again during the holidays, I want to take a moment to wish all my close friends and submissives a very merry or spanking Christmas. May you continue on to the next year with good health and lotsa play.

A special thanks to my dear friend Mistress Jade Dragon who has provided such a supportive shoulder and many laughs. Kisses.

I had so much fun playing at private and public parties alike. My most memorable moments are usually sitting on the old arm couch at Jules place sharing Domme stories.

To all my dear submissives who have helped enlighten me by making use of your body so I can experiment with new toys or use of my sadistic mind. I thank you very much.

I look forward to a whole new year of self discovery, explorations and new faces as well as old. As with every year that will come to pass, take a moment and reflect on what you have accomplished so far.

So Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

Hugs to all my friends, and spanks to all my submissives ;)

xoxo
Domina Jade

p.s. I will be attending the Fetish4Play event on Dec. 29th. I hope to see you all there.

My Schedule

2006-12-16T23:07:00.000-05:00

Here is my calendar so you can book a session without having to check with me first.

To see the full page please click MyCalendar

When jokes turn out the truth

2006-12-16T00:38:00.000-05:00

One day at work, I decided to wear all black with just a wide leather belt with zippers and metal studs. A co-worker said as a joke, "Oh I know where you are going tonight, you are a dominatrix because of that belt you're wearing"

I laughed with her and simply said, "yes you got me there I am going to whip a submissive real good tonight" And that was the absolute truth!

Oh my god. Of all days to have her say that. I did have a session after work. I had left all my gear in a locker at a mall downtown so my bag wouldn't be checked at the end of my shift.

If only people knew what I do on my days off. LOL.

So has anybody else had similar experiences?? Do share :)

Domina Jade

Charity for a Discount

2006-12-13T22:39:00.000-05:00

Donate to a charity of your choice and get up to $50 discount with your next session with me. Valid until Jan. 19th 2006. Must book through www.DominaJade.ca website.

I've been thinking a lot about the needy. This especially happens at around Christmas. I am always conscience about people who need help and I try to do the best that I can. Last year on my birthday I decided to sponsor a child from World Vision. I am still sponsoring Ut and will probably sponsor another child in the future.

This year I want to help more kids. And this is where you come in. For every amount that you donate to either a local charity or international charity like World Vision, I will match that amount (up to $50) in a form of a discount towards your next session with me. I will require a form of proof like a tax receipt in your name.

Feel free to donate generously and just feel better about yourself after doing so. If this idea works out and I see many submissives giving, then I will probably extend this offer indefinately.

Please don't do it just to get a discount, do it because you want to make the world a better place starting with one child at a time.

xoxo
Domina Jade

Time to do another review: BadAss Tire Paddle

2006-12-12T00:30:00.000-05:00

It's amazing what you can see when you google yourself. Actually in my case not so amazing since my site still ranks no. 1 for "Domina Jade." But that's not the point.

The point is the fourth ranking is Burning Rubber's comment about my review that I made early this year when a sub bought me a tire paddle for my birthday. Since it's my birthday soon JANUARY 19TH ;P and it's time for me to get a new paddle. Why not get the right size 17" paddle for me so I can do another review. (hint hint)

Actually I would LOVE to get new toys to use and abuse on a sub, then do more reviews. So to all you subs who want to be extra generous please get me the following:

Versatile Gag
Whips and Nylon floggers
Glass Dildo I may or may not review this hehe.
TENS unit
Cupping set

If there is a toy that you'd like to give me then I'd be more than happy to use it on you. Be sure to contact me first in case I already have one.

xoxo
Domina Jade

p.s I am on Jane's Guide. Woohoo.

Yup, still alive

2006-11-11T19:46:00.000-05:00

Just letting everyone know that I am still live and kicking (literally :P)

I have been busy in my personal life with work, family and friends. But don't worry I haven't forgotten about my submissives. I still offer Niteflirt phone sessions, once in awhile. Same thing for live sessions.

If you are craving my voice and want humiliation, I will be working on a new recording which *should* be up soon.

Well that's it for now. Don't forget that Christmas is right around the corner and so is my birthday (Jan. 19th) so keep on giving :)

xoxo
Domina Jade

It's a sad and tragic day - school shooting

2006-09-13T21:00:00.000-04:00

There was a shooting at a college here in my home town. One fatality and at least a dozen others hurt.

My heart and prayers go out to the victims of the school shooting that happened today at Dawson College. I am greatly affected because not only did I go to that school, but so does my little brother who is taking classes this semester. The moment that I heard what was going on, I was in a panick and called him up. He is fine, right now safe at home. However he was in a class perhaps 20 feet away from where the shooting took place.

It will take a few days to recover over this, even though I did not personally witness or experience this terrible and senseless rampage. I only hope that those who have been hurt will be okay as some are in critical condition.

It's even sadder that we just remembered the 9/11. And only 2 days after the anniversary, this happens. I think that I'll donate blood very soon. It's the least that I can do. Today is a sad, sad day.

For more news coverage, here's the link to ctv.ca

~Domina Jade

Weekend Play in the Outdoors

2006-09-11T18:37:00.000-04:00

I finally realized one of my fantasies, and that is to have a play scene out in the secluded woods. Sub y and I spent saturday night and most of sunday at a chalet up north. I feel so pampered and spoiled.

The fact that there's no running water at the chalet, sub y had to work a bit harder by fetching water from a spring for my morning bath. Also I was feeling a bit sick so he was a complete sweetheart making my tea, getting cough syrup, and making sure that I was doing fine.

Before going to bed on saturday night, we had a little wax play. I LOVE pouring hot wax onto a submissive, almost as much as having wax poured over me. To me, candle wax play can be quite a sensual experience. To have the wax droplets hit your skin to create intense heat then feel it cool off. Wax can be used to decorate your body like art. Depending on where the wax hits, it can be from medium pain to intense pain ... but only for a second. Unless you build up the intensity by letting wax drop over the same spot. Yes, I have a fascination with wax play.

The following day, we took a little walk to scout for the perfect play spot, away from the passerbys. It was a great location full of trees to muffle sounds. Sub y had bought a new electrical toy. I had lots of fun comparing the electric toy with an electric fly zapper. His male tidbits were completely vulnerable. Actually HE was completely vulnerable as I tied him to a tree without a shirt on and his pants were to his ankles. Since he couldn't move, I pretty much had a free for all with him.

The whole experience was fun for both of us. I hope to visit again. But in the meantime, I'll think up lots of thing to do when I get there.

~Domina Jade

I'm back and so much better :-)

2006-08-28T01:54:00.000-04:00

Well I decided to give you guys a treat on Niteflirt. Basically I had reduced my rate down to .99 only for Sunday. And boy did I get tons of calls. It was truly so much fun humiliating my little sissy sluts, gang-bang a cuckold, role-play the naughty boss, and of course I even offered cam. Those called me on the on Niteflirt and actually got to cum ... better leave me positive feedback before your next call with me. And for the other losers who hung up after 3 minutes, don't even bother calling me back cause I blocked your sorry ass.

I had daniel5496 on cam today. I must admit he was quite a looker, however he was expecting some pussy action. I mean like HELLO! you called the Mistress cam you dumbass. I don't mind being an exhibitionist especially when I feel naughty, however do not ever expect it from me. I will do whatever I want on cam. He did not jump the hoops to get my attention, even said, "I don't take orders too well ... besides I didn't even see your tits and ass yet" Well danny boy you fucktard, I don't take orders to well either. So I ended the call while you still had a limp dick in your hand. LOL. Needless to say he left me a neg, but then I don't give a fuck.

And then the night ended very sweetly when a previous submissive who had served me before called me up to catch up on some news in his life. We had a very pleasant conversation and it was nice to end the night with his sweet words. But check out the feedback he left me, I didn't expect that at all ... Thank you yves, you pretty much made my day *kisses*. And I will see you this weekend for the Fetish Ball.

Overall it was a very productive day on Niteflirt. I haven't been online or on the phone for such a long time, however I am back and doing sooooo much better. I am working on yet another website but dedicated to my Niteflirt services. And I will also be working on a members areas stocked with pics, wicked stories, audio, and videos. So stay tuned and pick up the phone if you want to be part of my stable.

~Domina Jade

Missed me?? New updates to my site

2006-08-20T00:01:00.000-04:00

I know, it's been awhile since I lasted posted.

Let me see what did I do while I was away??? Well I have been working (normal job) going out to play parties, water slides, and just enjoying the summer. I have not been dominating submissives very much either in real time or on the phone. But now that the weather is cooling off a little bit, I will be staying home more often.

My website is pretty much completed. I will add more pics along the way. Have a few photoshoots set up this month. So be sure to bookmark www.DominaJade.ca if you haven't already.

Also on Niteflirt I will set up cam again. If you are admiring me from afar, and cannot see me personally then you can call me on NF and view my cam. If you cannot join NF because of your country then you can still view my cam on Eyeball and Yahoo. You will need to have AlertPay for this option to work.

Furthermore, I am looking for both female and male submissives for possible fetish video/photo production. Go to my website for the contact information.

~Domina Jade

Best parties are the ones next door

2006-08-05T15:01:00.000-04:00

Oh my freakin god ... my head is buzzing fro partying all night until 8am in the morning. It was a total blast. I love living next to students, because they love to party and chances are I can crash in :) Which is exactly what I did last night.

I was about to go to sleep at around midnight when I heard some awesome techno and trance music from upstairs. I had forgotten that it was someone's birthday in the apartment. Not one to miss all the action, I freshened up and went to greet my new neighbors.

It was such a sight to see like 30-50 people dancing and all crammed up in a 3 1/2. They brought in 6 different DJs to really liven the party. Everyone was simply enjoying the techno beat. I will check out rave parties more often because I love the high octane dancing. To feel my body move and feel so in sync with the music. I just want to lose myself.

By morning, I made some new friends. Of course I was getting very hungry so I cooked breakfast for everyone invited. My apartment was just downstairs and I enjoy being a good host. Besides, I like to eat with good company especially kinky minded.

The topic of spanking came up. I offered a couple of my implements to use. We shared a couple of kinky stories. Who knows, I may even have a little play scene in the future.

But for today, I will relax and enjoy the good weather. Then get ready for yet another party, albeit a fetish party for tonight.

~Domina Jade

Annoying yahoo sluts ... and good sluts

2006-07-21T23:52:00.000-04:00

"Hi I am ..... - wanna cam?"
"So just how kinky are you?"
"You wanna chat? I am handsome, blah, blah, blah"

So I have a yahoo profile, which clearly states that I am a professional Domme. I have my website listed as well as Niteflirt. But of course, yahoo sluts don't read. What is a yahoo slut? A wanker who peruses the profiles. If they see a pretty picture, then they will IM you out of the blue. Most like their profile is pretty much worthless so you know they are just trying to get a free wank session.

But once in a blue moon I will get a slut that I absolutely adore. A financial slut. Those I will use for my own enjoyment as they tribute their way into my world. Sometimes I will put on my cam after they have proven their worth to me, over and over again.

So how do you become a good financial slut? Firstly tribute for my time accordingly. I will not chat with you for free. You want to talk to me then either use Niteflirt or pay to serve me. A good way of getting my attention is to get something from my wishlist BEFORE contacting me. Otherwise your first hello will result in IGNORE. And you don't want to screw your chances with me do you? I didn't think so.

Get a cam if you don't have one. I enjoy having my financial sluts perform humiliating clown acts just to have me laugh at them.

You think you can be a good slut? Then send me a gift. Then be ready to spoil me some more.

~Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571
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Must Have - The Better Built Bondage Book

2006-07-11T09:32:00.000-04:00

Mistress Jade Dragon had shown me this book The Better Built Bondage Book at a previous BBQ party. I think that every kinkster who wants to make their own equipement should get TBBBB. It's budget friendly since most toys found in the book are relatively inexpensive to make. It give very concise instructions and the photos are pretty nice to look at.

Go visit the TBBBB site for more info. While you're there get me a copy as well ;)

~Domina Jade

Busy Weekend

2006-07-10T09:47:00.000-04:00

Oooooooh my aching feet. I have been on my feet either dancing or dominating on friday and saturday night. Yesterday I was working. So I've been busy having fun for most of the weekend.

On friday I went clubbing and danced my feet off. I wore heels that I have not worn since last summer. Big mistake. By the end of the night I limped out of the club. I had to take my heels off, which I did. I felt so good to feel my bare feet against the cold hard pavement. Had to watch out for broken glass though.

On saturday I had a very good session with another new submissive. He enjoys heavier pain. I loooooooove to play hard. It gives me an adrenaline rush everytime I bring out a different toy to abuse him with.

I used a couple of pervertables such as a metal bristled dog brush. It will get a submissive to jump with you brush against his nipples. I also used these adorable mini clothespins. You can get them at most craft stores. Thanks Maddog for the idea. These mini clothespins may look cute, but the hurt like a bitch.

What also hurts is my new whip that the submissive bought for me as a gift. It is made of leather and has two strips which points out at the end. It's a stingy toy which I loved using. It will definitelt leave marks over the skin. Thank you sub f. for the gift - I love it.

Later on in the evening I met with sub y. to go to a kinky BBQ. There I met a few familiar faces. The host also had a metal bondage frame as mentioned in my ealier post. It was very well constructed. He attached a stocks device onto the frame. I did place my head and wrists in the stocks to get the feel. Yup I couldn't get out. Very well made.

By 11pm, I got dressed in my pvc corset and skirt. I was ready for play at the Fetish Ball being held at Bain Mathieu. Traffic was such a hassle. sub f. joked that this was bondage that was much too unbearable. When we arrived at Bain Mathieu, half the section was blocked off. It was a completely different set-up. Half the pool served as a dance area. It directly connects to the downstairs lounge. Above the pool was the play space. Because there wasn't much room for both spectators and players, the play area was slightly crowded. But I understand why only half of Bain Mathieu was used because there was a lot less people who came to this venue than the April Fool's Ball.

I enjoy doing public play. It was the second time that I played with sub f. The first time was light play but this time I went a little harder. He proved to be a very good subject for my whippings and spankings. Later on, I'd love to do a double flogger session. I still have to get in touch with Master Gordon about my order.

Overall I had a nice time at Fetish Ball. My feet were once again killing me. So I had sub y massage my feet in the lounge. Ahhhhhh, I could have fallen asleep there.

~ Domina Jade

Boxing and stinky feet

2006-07-07T18:30:00.000-04:00

So I had a session last night with a new submissive. I love playing with new submissives because it gives me a sense of excitement as I explore what buttons to push. I love to see them squirm when I dish out the punishments which later end with a reward (if they deserve it).

This submissive, we'll call him mad4mitts has a fetish for boxing gloves and stinky feet. I've never boxed before so I was looking forward to try on the gloves for the first time. Prior to the session, I envisioned myself beating the daylights out of the submissive because, well I wanted to. Punching the submissive in the face, giving him side jabs to the ribs, and of course pummeling his cock. I even chuckled to myself as I thought about kneeing him in the the place where 'sun don't shine' and watching him drop to the floor crying. Unfortunately my session didn't go that way. He was simply too old for my beatings - so I spared him.

However I wasn't going to let him go so easily. If I couldn't use him as my punching bag then I would tease him. I can be such a good cocktease, in fact I love it when I tease someone so good then not allow him to touch his hard-on. mad4mitts got exactly that.

I rubbed his face with the boxing gloves. Made him smell the leather. Even lightly punched his face and humiliated him by saying that he was absolutely weak before me. I could easily beat him to a pulp if we were to fight against each other. He was quite turned on knowing what I said was true.

By now my feet was getting all stinky in my running shoes. Running shoes? What you'd think I'd be wearing heels to a boxing sessions? I have to admit that I do have a slight problem with foot odeur especially in the summer when it gets super hot. I usually wear open toed sandals unless I am working out. Anyways, my feet stank by the time I took off my running shoes. mad4mits over here was tied to the bondage bed, so I stuffed my shoe over his face and made him smell it. I laugh as I humiliated him then tease him for having a hard-on.

I sat on a chair and commanded him to lie on his back in front of me. As I rubbed my bare feet over his face and had him suck on my toes, he tried to touch himself. But I jerked his hands away with the rope which was still tied to both of his wrists. It's as if I was controlling a marionette doll. Letting him touch then when he's on the verge of cumming, his hands were suddenly pulled away. I laughed gleefully when mad4mitts begged to cum. Knowing that I controlled him and could get anything from him, I made him agree to pay for my kickboxing classes. And I will hold you to your promise. Hey what a Mistress wants, she gets.

Overall it was a delightful session. Since I did not get to box as much, I am looking forward to sparring with a submissive who can take the good beating. It's been awhile since I whipped someone black and blue. Maybe I will get a chance tomorrow night at Fetish Ball.

~ Domina Jade

Kinky Pool Party

2006-07-02T12:31:00.000-04:00

I can't think of anything better to celebrate Canada Day than a kinky pool party. The party was hosted by a couple well known in the BDSM community because of KINK. I got to see and have fun with all my kinky friends; Mistress Jade Dragon (see her blog), Michael, Sir Marc, and Maddog.

What a great way to start the summer. There was good food, good music, a cold pool, and an open fire. I managed to fit into bikini but will get a new bathing suit because the ass part is getting loose. In the pool we were running around to make whirlwinds then floated with the motion on boogie boards. We were silly and acted like a bunch of kids, but hey it summer. Plus who says we can't act like kids once in awhile.

I was given a tour of the house and cozy dungeon. I must admit it was quite small, given the 9x9 room. However they fixed the room perfect for two without being too crowed. It has a nice Egyptian theme and I absolutely adore the wood boards across one wall to serve as a bondage area.

Throughout the whole night we talked about Jade Dragon's kitties, shared funny stories about trips to the hardware store, and I had a big bruise from a move so I joked that if I was a submissive I'd be so proud to show it off.

There wasn't much play in the dungeon room, however there was plenty of relaxing in the hot tub in the couple's basement. Now this is something that EVERY household should have. It felt so great to feel the water jets against my lower back and shoulder blades. I was completely sore all over after moving my best friend on Friday. My highlight of the evening was to soak in the hot tub or the roasting of marshmallows over the open fire.

Now I can't help but long for my own house. I would have a dungeon in the basement to host my own parties. I'd make sure that I have a decent backyard with high fences to play outside discreetly. What's even better is to own a house out in the country with my own acre of woodlands. Just thinking about all the outdoor activities such as horse play and slave pinata makes me all giddy inside. But first things first, fix my apt. dungeon.

There is still so much to get. I am open to negociating toys and equipement for a reduced tribute for a session. When I first started exploring my kink with people I would negotiate my toys and wardrobe for a kinky scene. I think it's a great way for submissives who are low on cash but can offer a skill instead.

Well it's a gorgeous day today. It's hot and sunny, I might just call up my girlfriend for a swim.

~Domina Jade

New website updates

2006-06-25T14:30:00.000-04:00

Well I managed to make a couple of changes to my website. It's been frustrating trying to understand the control panel. The site is still undergoing changes so expect to see something new and different in the next couple of days or weeks.

~ Domina Jade

I want THIS toy

2006-06-22T11:12:00.000-04:00

I came across this personal bdsm site. It features a metal frame for bondage and many other uses. What's great about this frame is that it can be taken down and hidden away quite easily. I am thinking that this bondage piece will be perfect for my place.

So, to ALL my ATM piggies and whoever .... donate to my Toy Fund right now. I am hoping to have this custom made by the time summer is over, if not sooner. Just think you are giving to a great cause, which is my happiness. So it's in your best interest to empty your wallets for me right now. To make things idiot-proof. Click on the button below for an instant cash deposit into my Niteflirt account :) Don't be cheap. You have my permission to click more than once.

$25

$50

$100

I also accept other methods of payment. Send me an e-mail to find out how.

~Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT Ext: 0696571
www.Niteflirt.com/Domina+Jade

Move's Over

2006-06-16T14:40:00.000-04:00

Well my move has been without any major headaches. I had my friends help me out and I could not have had my move without them. Now I am settled in my new apartment. I love my new space. What I love about this place is that it's close to all amenities and it's just a 20 minute metro ride to downtown.

There are still some things that I need to do before I feel like it's home, such as painting and buying some new curtains. I have plenty of storage space. In fact I have a cellar that is placed underneath some stairs. What's great is that I can transform that cellar into a cage for a disobedient pet or just someone who loves cages. I will have someone place a wrought iron gate behind the door so it's discreetly hidden from the 'vanilla' folk.

My office is will be set in a way that I can move around furniture to accomodate a dungeon. I plan on getting a cross, a spanking bench and a bondage chair. I think those are the basics which suit me fine. I don't need a lot to dominate someone. In fact it's not the fact that I have the equipement that makes me a Domme, it's my attitude. But since I am such a visual person, I will have my toys.

I still don't have internet connection so if you send me an e-mail don't expect a response right away. It could take up to a week before you hear from me. This also means that I won't be taking session appointments until I am completely settled in. But everything should be over with by the end of June.

Well one thing is for sure without my internet and cable, I am enjoying the company of my close friends. It was time to see them anyways.

Domina Jade

KinkySexRadio

2006-06-06T23:51:00.000-04:00

KinkySexRadio.com is a great radio broadcast site which talks about kinky sex, BDSM, kink, etc. I just discovered them and I absolutely enjoy listening to their shows. I have listened to other kinky talkshows but this is one of the few that actually interests me.

Go check them out.

~Domina Jade

It all began with panties

2006-05-27T11:43:00.000-04:00

I have to admit, I stumbled onto fetishes by accident perhaps 4-5 years ago. And it all began with my panties. Yes, my panties or rather my thongs. But how?? Well it all began on the fated day when I stumbled onto a panty auction website, notibly eBanned.net. I have always been intrigued by the concept of someone buying a girl's worn panties.

I first heard about it from friends and how in Japan there were these vending machines distributing girl's worn underwear. My first reaction had been 'yuck, who'd buy used underwear? That's nasty' But the more I thought about it the more I wanted to find outabout this 'perverted act'. So began my research and then my eventual participation as a 'panty girl'

Initially girls began to auction off their panties on eBay. But due to the new rules about body parts and liquid, eBay banned these types of auctions. Hence eBanned was born. And now it's a rather huge community with hundreds of different girls auctioning off more than just panties but also pantyhose, used clothing, videos, pictures sets, and even 'brownies' I am sure you have an idea of what THAT is.

As a student with limited funds I figured why not? Pretty harmless, and in fact it is. The new girl will always get tons of bids. I think it went up to $50 just for a panty of mine. I was like 'wow' I'll bet I can post an auction every week for some extra spending money. That lasted for perhaps a year or two.

It was so much fun too. I was adored, worshipped, and praised. I started to finally understand why someone would buy a girl's worn panty. It was an intimate act shared between me and the winning bidder. I would wear the panty for no more than two days, during which I would even masturbate in them because it was such a turn on. Then ship it out when it's was pretty soaked and scented. And I did a pretty damn good job at it too because I always had repeat buyers.

Next to panties, I also posted my worn pantyhose. So I got to to chat with foot fetishists. I remember one particular guy who was also into financial domination. He just adored my size 6 feet. Gotta admit, my feet a pretty to look at. He begged and begged me to send him my foot pictures in exchange for tribute. I could have sent him my photos for a minimal charge, but here was this submissive who wanted to spend his money on me ... no, on my pictures. So I happily charged him extra. But it always rollballed into something else. So began a Mistress and submissive relationship. He then began to send me weekly tributes in the sum of hundreds of dollars. By the end of our relationship, I pretty much sucked out a couple of thousand from him. Now let me remind you that as a student, that's a shitload of money. My books and tuition was pretty much paid for.

But being the curious person that I am, I wanted to learn more about fetishes and domination. By now I was absolutely hooked. Yes of course money was great but there had to be more to domination than financial domination and panty sluts. Although I enjoyed controlling submissives online or e-mail, I wanted more. I wanted to see what was like to dominate in real-time.

By trial and error I learned to become a better Mistress. No one trained me how to be a Dominatrix - although I did read a couple of books. And even if I had the opportunity to be trained, I would not go that way. My method of domination will remain true to me and no one else. I did not start as a submissive. I was not a bossy young teenager tormenting little boys. None of that happened. I'd say my curious nature and open-mind lend me to many wonderful things.

I am happy to say that most of my early experiments with different submissives were good one. I still chat with a few of them as friends. I am of course still learning. Going to public and private play parties, attending BDSM seminars, exchanging tips among my kinkys friends.

There's a second stepping stone to my journey towards Domination, but that will have to wait for next time ...

~Domina Jade

How can you help me? Gag

2006-05-27T01:02:00.000-04:00

I love toys. I love my floggers, paddles, strap-on's, and of course my gags. And I love it even more when a toy can actually serve a purpose.

The "How may I serve you" Gag series are ingenious. I absolutely love the idea of snapping different attachments to serve a different purpose.

I can just imagine and fantasize my submissive on hands and knees in front of my toilet bowl cleaning it with the brush attachment.

Wouldn't you want that priviledge, slave? To clean my house with the use of your mouth. Having your hands tied behind your back while you do the housechores. It would be quite amusing to see. Don't you think?

For more information about this toy visit my Wishlist Better yet, buy it for me. But do it quick because JT's Stockroom is having a 10% discount on selected items bought from my wishlist for this week only. I expect many toys in my mailbox :D

~Domina Jade

Don't call me on a holiday

2006-05-14T22:41:00.000-04:00

Well I have almost finished packing all my things. Been re-organizing my files, downsizing my belongings. When makes me think how much crap I actually own. My new apartment will be considerably smaller than my current. So I will have live more organized and use all my space to the max. Which is fine by me because the less clutter there is the easier my life will be. And of course it is always useful having help around the house. Thank goodness for slave georges. He and I went shopping yesterday for moving supplies, scented candles, and a bonsai plant. Now that the packing is almost done, I can start planning the actual move sometime in June.

Today is Mother's Day. I got my mom a lovely flower "Lys de Stargazer" and a pot. She appreciated the gesture plus the plant sure does give the house a nice smell. I had no plans other than to see my mom. Surprisingly I received calls for a session from several submissives. One even tried to tempt me into punishing him for taking me away from my mom. Don't think so buddy - but I am available next weekend. There are several holidays that I will not be sessioning; My birthday (Jan. 19th), Christmas, Chinese New Year, Valentines Day, New Years Eve & Day, Mothers & Father's Day .. So take note cause I'll be busy. However there are still many days in the year to see me, just remember to book in advance (24hours) or you'll be disappointed because I always have plans.

~Domina Jade

These losers should get a life

2006-05-06T09:56:00.000-04:00

Sometimes I get requests to add to my MSN from people I don't know. Normally I deny that request because I prefer receiving an e-mail first. I am not on MSN all the time and when I am on, I tend to chat with people that I have already met. But today I decided to add Jack onto my list then go online to see who this is. This is sorta how the conversation goes ...

'My friends say you are a whore, do you want the details' then another box opens up and all of a sudden I am chatting with 2 other strangers. And they launch into bashing me. At this point I blocked all of them because this is a complete waste of my time, which confirms why I usually deny chat requests.

To:
ashesofthefetus@hotmail.com
killer_thirst@hotmail.co.uk
never-gonna-keep-me-down@hotmail.com

I have better things to do than to debate whether or not what I do is whorish. If you have problems with what I do, then I don't give a flying fuck. So get a life rather than playing your pathetic games online. Here's some useful advice, since you seem to love each others company so much and have a lot of time to spare try slutting and whoring among yourselves and fuck each other in the ass. Trust me you'll enjoy it. Then you will regret blowing your chances with me and my strap-on.

~Domina Jade

Argaive photos now available

2006-05-01T23:01:00.000-04:00

Click, click, click :D

NEW!!! Domina Jade and a slave

~Domina Jade

Sunday session with sub yves

2006-04-30T21:53:00.000-04:00

Today was absolutely gorgeous. What a perfect day to have a session too. Sub yves and I had exchanged emails and spoken a few times on Niteflirt. So by the time we finally met in person, I knew him enough to be comfortable playing with him. Prior to the session I broke out my chunky open toed sandals. Since it has been awhile since I wore them, my feet were aching by time I arrived at the dungeon. So guess who got to rub my feet.

What a pleasant surprise when sub yves presented me with a present. He bought a tube top dress with a glitery dragon in front and black pantyhose also with dragons. These thoughtful gestures certainly do put a smile on my face. Truthfully I haven't been in the best moods lately but sub yves really did cheer me up. Thank you yves.

A funny story about the purchase. Yves went a sex store located outside of Montreal. The saleswoman was someone in her fifties. She asked yves if he was buying for his girlfriend, to which he responded that it's the first time he's meeting me. The woman then mentioned that she had the perfect pill for him to ensure we would have a 'good time.' Needless to say, yves passed up on the offer and said he had no problems getting it up. The woman quipped, 'oh that's what they all say.' I broke out laughing when I heard that story.

So we began the session with the rubbing of the feet. He mentioned to me that he brought a video camera in case I would like to video tape the scene. Absolutely yes. I took a sip from my water bottle, then asked if he was thirsty. When he nodded, I spit the water into his mouth which also splashed everywhere on his face and on the floor. I couldn't let the floor remain wet, so I had him lick every drop. I directed him where to lick and I videotaped the whole incident from above.

The session progressed into having his balls and penis tied up and attaching the rope to his collar. I had his head bent as if to bow his head. I reminded him that I had so much control over his body, he was to obey and serve me. I later bound him completely with saran wrap from neck to ankles. He was immobile and sweating profusely. I knew he felt vulnerable especially as I stuck a dildo into his mouth. Everything was on tape, even the part where he's sucking the dildo.

The session was quite amusing. I had a lot of fun with yves. My second appointment got cancelled, so yves and I went for dinner downtown at a resto called Mango Bay. The food was great, too bad the service was slow.

So overall, I had a pleasant Sunday afternoon. I am sure that I will see sub yves again. Perhaps next time he will take me out to a fetish party.

~Domina Jade

Non-kinky's night out

2006-04-30T02:09:00.000-04:00

I almost did not go to Inferno because I lacked transportation there. However I convinced my non-kinky friend to come out with me. It was so last minmute (started chatting on msn at 10:58pm) that we missed a good portion of CMF's show. Oh well, maybe next time.

Even though I brought my bag of goodies with me, I ended dancing the whole night. The music was good, we were non stop on the dance floor the whole night through. I think that next time I will tour the play area a little bit more a snag myself a willing victim. I love to play in public.

Come to think of it, I should have given my friend a tour of the play area. Perhaps next time if he decides to go to another fetish party. Too bad he's not of submissive nature, I would have enjoyed tying him up and spanking him. I do enjoy rosy cheeks :D

Well, there are many others who'd love to get their ass spanked by me. And I will do so with a smile.

~Domina Jade

My fetish list for my new apartment

2006-04-28T22:26:00.000-04:00

Today I have signed my lease to my new apartment which I get to move in for July. Now the only thing that I have to think of next is packing my things and the moving day madness. But I will worry about that later.

For the next couple of weeks I am going to concentrate on getting supplies and furniture for my very own dungeon! I am absolutely ecstatic about playing whenever I want in my own privacy. I can invite my kinky friends over or even have extended play with submissives. But of course I have to have my dungeon filled with the essentials.

A couple of things that I will require:

Spreader bars in various lengths
Wrist and ankle cuffs
Plenty of bondage rope in different thicknesses
Metal hooks and rings
Candles
Spanking bench
Industrial roll of plastic wrap

Non-kinky items in large quantity:
Towels
Paper towels
Baby wipes
latex gloves

So if you want to see that I get what I want and need for my new dungeon then contribute to my "Dungeon Fund" I accept NF and PP donations. E-mail me for more details.

~Domina Jade

Spoil your Mistress today and tomorrow always

2006-04-26T00:00:00.000-04:00

I get quite a few regular callers on Niteflirt. The topic of discussion varies from feminization, financial domination to playing out different role-plays. My favorite are of course financial domination. I get so much satisfaction out of submissives emptying their wallets and paying my bills.

Take slaverick, he simply cannot get enough of me. He's been my paypig for several months. It started off slowly as I would have him pay for my pictures at a higher price, because I can. He's been sending me cash at least every week. And now he's upgraded to paying my rent. Today he accepted a payment request from paypal for $250, and he will accept another $250 on NF. So he's currently in my Hall of Fame among submissives. In no time he will have sent me hundreds and soon thousands.

I have others who enjoy spoiling me like malcolm who is also my panty slut. I sent him my worn panties to sniff and worship. It should arrive in his mailbox pretty soon. I've sent him audio instructions to follow when the package does arrive. I've had plenty of panty sluts like him before, and I still have room for more.

There's sissyMimi who is just going beyond his comfort zone with my help. He is keeping an online journal and will correspond with me on a daily basis. Tomorrow I will have him wear to work ladies panties underneath his trousers. He's quite nervous because he's never done this before and will always be thinking about the possibilty of being caught. But he will do his task just to please me. To visit sissyMimi's blog click here.

Another task that I sent someone to do is submissive jay. I had him cum into a cup and save it as 'jam' for breakfast. It was the most disgusting thing he's tasted on toast. LOL. I did hear that eating pineapple daily will sweeten your cum ;)

And then there are baby subs who just don't know what they want. But when I tell them to do something, they simply don't have the nerve and chicken out. I am talking about you rygar7737. As of now I am blocking your sorry ass for disappointing me. I don't want to hear from you or speak to you. You have wasted my time so I am ridding myself from you. Well should be what you want now, but when you eventually your mind it's too late because you are no longer accepted in my domain.

Of course not everyone disappoints me like rygar. The majority of submissives that I speak to on NF are very entertaining and eager to please me. I have had great pleasure in controlling everyone of my close submissives.

If you haven't called me yet, then you should by now.

~Domina Jade

Argaive Photography

2006-04-21T15:07:00.000-04:00

Sweet! The long awaited pics from Argaive are almost ready. Here are a few samples of the beautiful photography we came up with.

Enjoy!

Domina Jade

Eros Guide Picture Update

2006-04-21T11:05:00.000-04:00

Every month I get to update my pictures for my ad on Eros Guide Montreal. It's a site that references Escorts, Dancers, Masseuse and Dommes. They have a great way of adding traffic to my site through their 'what's new' page.

Go see what's new ... and be sure to bookmark and check for my new pic every mid-month or every 30 days. Eros Guide Montreal

~Domina Jade

Nipple Torture

2006-04-21T10:37:00.000-04:00

I had a marvelous time last night with my good friend philippe. We started playing at around midnight and finished the scene by 2am.

He's such a nipple torture slut. Afterwards when I saw how big and perky his nipples were I remarked that he can now fit into an A cup lol. Here are some photos to look at:

We haven't played in two months. So last night, it was a blast seeing him suffer for me again. It's not everyday that I get to play with such a pain slut that when I do play, it's a real treat for me. I love watching him moan in sweet agony as I perform my nipple tortures, cbt, bondage, caning, and spanking. LOVE IT.

Now I need a bit of practice with my caning techniques and so he showed me an extreme caning website Mood Pictures. Talk about hardcore and extreme caning sessions. I don't think that I am at that level quite yet. I know that philippe is capability of taking that sort of torture so when I am ready hopefully he will be my subject.

Well it's another beautiful day ... I wonder who will call me for a session. I am just itching to practice my techniques on a willing victim >:)

~Domina Jade

Cabaret Mado

2006-04-20T13:27:00.000-04:00

Yesterday was absolutely gorgeous. I took my bike out and rode out to check an apartment for rent. Turns out that I love the place. Hopefully I will be accepted as a tenant.

The nice weather has been encouraging me to ride my bike everywhere. Pretty soon I will have buns of steel. Also my thighs and calves will be a power to be reckoned with when I kick my submissives in the ass LOL. I did 3 hours of biking without much pain unlike the last time (I now have gel seats to cushion my lovely bum) so no more complaining from me ;)

By the time I got home it was 7pm - I felt restless and didn't want to stay home. So I called up my good friend philippe. We went out to St. Denis, had coffee and just caught up on news and life. It was a perfect night, just a little breeze not too cold and not too hot. Everything was great until a pebble shot into my plate, good thing I just finished. Construction on St Denis makes everything dusty - especially with the afternoon walking traffic. So we continued the night on Ste Catherine.

We came across a drag bar named Cabaret Mado. Since I've never been to a drag bar, but only seen one from movies, we checked it out. It was a blast. I fully appreciate the work that these drag queens put into their costumes and make-up. Hmmm maybe I can get pointers for make-up. They are also great performers and funny as hell. I plan on going back perhaps on monday since I am such a geek for Karaoke nights.

~Domina Jade

Moving Day headaches

2006-04-17T22:46:00.000-04:00

So, did everyone have a pleasant Easter this weekend? I had a very quiet weekend as I don't celebrate Easter, however I don't mind getting chocolates LOL. I am now on a a veggie diet to flush out the impurities in my system.

Spoiling myself with chocolate was not all I had done .. I did take a *few* calls on Nitefirt and checked the newspaper for a new apartment. Moving is such a hassle here in Montreal. I think we're the only city that has July 1st as a moving day and it's the dumbest ritual ever. So I trying on finding a place for June in order to bypass the moving day headache. Then I have to consider renting a moving truck and hire men to move my stuff. And I have A LOT of stuff. But once it's all over, I will have fun painting and decorating my own place. No roomates with different decorating styles, no disagreements, no sharing bathrooms, and dammit I can walk naked in the apartment if I want to. Yup, I am looking forward to moving out and starting fresh.

Now, if only I can actually sign a lease ... I will be happy.

~Domina Jade

Silly Video Clip

2006-04-15T19:52:00.000-04:00

I love Firefox, won't change my browser for anything else. I guess I am not the only one.

Click here

Btw Happy easter

~Domina Jade

First Podcast and Mr. Anonymous' 5 minutes of fame

2006-04-06T00:06:00.000-04:00

I enjoy talking on the phone and as well making recordings. So I've decided to make my first podcast. Now for the time being it is being hosted on putfile.com - but that should change in May as I am updating my website ... again.

From my previous post I'd mention about laughing at mr. anonymous for insulting my blog ... so have a listen and send me feedback.

Click here to listen

~Domina Jade

Not much of a Dominant?

2006-04-04T18:45:00.000-04:00

Here is my conversation on msn with a submissive from Lavalife.

thomas: hello Ma'am

Domina Jade: hello

Domina Jade: so I granted you permission to chat with me for a bit on msn

thomas: thank you Ma'am

thomas: you are looking for a masochist ?

Domina Jade: absolutely

thomas: as a personal sub to you Ma'am?

Domina Jade: well that option might be available but it all depends

thomas: may i ask on what Ma'am?

Domina Jade: well for one thing I don't want a do-me submissive

thomas: no Ma'am

Domina Jade: When I choose a submissive it will be on my terms

thomas: but i may not like all your likes and do have my own limits...

Domina Jade: well of course and I respect that

thomas: somehow i knew that

Domina Jade: I don't like someone dictating what I can do

thomas:i see

Domina Jade: however I will push limits

thomas: you mean not dictating my hard limits Ma'am?

Domina Jade: not quite, it's more like telling me to do this and that without
considering what I want first

Domina Jade: I have disregarded countless 'subs' who launch into what I should do to them, rather than ask what they can do for me

thomas: may i ask what i can do for you first MA'am?

Domina Jade: well I prefer casual conversation for now

thomas: i appreciate that

Domina Jade: I want to know more about you and why you think you can serve me

thomas: well mainly because you are looking for someone who loves pain Ma'am...i love
corporal discipline...up to the cane as my pic is kinda showing

thomas: but i also would like to know about what other things you like to do...im not sure i am capable of those things or they could be things i havent tried or hard limits

thomas: i am also a very nice down to earth man who loves to have fun

Domina Jade: well I enjoy severe cp, strap-on play, slight feminization, trampling, bondage, humblers, medical scenes, play piercing, temp. branding, gs,

Domina Jade: but most importantly I enjoy being spontaneous with my scenes

thomas: i appreciate that...

thomas: I enjoy severe cp, bondage and have not tried the others and would not be interested...sorry

Domina Jade: I am pretty big on verbal and physical humiliation too

thomas: thats acceptable

Domina Jade: well if you are not really interested in the rest as I am then I don't think this will work out. When I am searching for a submissive, I prfer that he enjoys overall the similar activities that I also like

thomas: then you cant be much of a Dominant Woman ....you have no idea what a submissive is then Ma'am...its not only what you like or think ... and appreciate your time...you're right this would never work!!

thomas: take care

So am I the only person to see something wrong here? I am not much of a Dominant woman because I actually express what I am interested in and follow those views? What am I to do, mend my ways just because a submissive does not share similar tastes? Before I could respond back thomas logged off - well in any case he's blocked for his lack of manners towards the end of the convo.

The way I see it, I will not waste my time on someone who is not compatible with me. If he/she does not participate nor has no interest in trying then why should I give him my precious time?? What we had here was a situation of non-compatibility. I would have accepted if we left it at that but no, he leaves an insulting remark that I am not 'domme' enough. Which leaves me to believe he's a do-me submissive afterall. Well better I know sooner than later as I say....

~Domina Jade

Review for Fetish4Play and Fetish Fool's Ball

2006-04-02T22:55:00.000-04:00

I had a BLAST partying at both Fetish4Play and Fetish Fool's Ball. Both parties were well planned out and I am all partied out!

Friday night was the Fetish Expo at the Fetish4Play where local crafts people display their fetish talents. It varied from photography, custom made floggers, paddles, humblers, figurines, and jewelry. It was a fantastic night to see them showcase their work. During the party we were entertained by a demo performed by Master Luk, Calamity and Freaky Nat. It was sexy and highly entertaining.

Betcha love this one eh ;)

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(Personal cameras not allowed so no pics for saturday)

Saturday night was the Fetish Fool's Ball at Bain Mathieu. I was absolutely awestruck during the whole event. There was an empty pool at the center which people can dance in, a projection screen inside a large ball hanging from the ceiling, dancing performers all night through, an acrobat performance with ceiling drapes, kickass DJ, big play area, and lounge area that can be entered by the side of the pool. The whole night was phenomenal - I believe these types of events will put Montreal on the map for one of THE best places for Fetish nights.

So now I am completely exhausted from the dancing and playing. But it was one of the best weekends I have ever had. Now I am off to bed and dream about the good times :)

~Domina Jade

Let's party this weekend

2006-03-29T10:12:00.000-05:00

I love to party and mingle with the fetish community. See me at both Fetish4Play and Fetish Fools Ball. For more information visit the Attitudes.cc website.

See you there.

~Domina Jade

Favorite Role-Plays

2006-03-27T11:02:00.000-05:00

Quite often I get requested to role-play. This can either be in person or on the phone. While I enjoy role-play scenarios there are some scenes that hold a special place in my wicked heart.

Medical Role-Play
I play the naughty nurse or doctor, and the submissive plays the patient. What I love is using the stainless steel equipement and prodding it into the patient. Or wrapping the patient in bandage - sorta like bondage for me. As a child I did not get a chance to play doctor too often, maybe it is now that I am catching up ;)

Prison Role-Play
I play the guard and the submissive is the prisoner. Hmmm, I just want to play rough and hold the prisoner to the wall and frisk him. Do a thorough inspections check before entering his caged chambers. I find that walking around with a baton and tapping it in my hand while staring down the prisoner is pretty hot.

Disciplinary Role-Play
This can involve either a teacher and her student or the lieutenant and the soldier. The main idea here is behaviour modicafication. I want to drill my ways in to the submissive and he is expected to learn of be punished.

Interrogation Role-Play
I enjoy scene that involve torture to extract information out of the victim. To tie up the submissive and using implemements such as canes and water torture.

Now most of these role-plays involve my very sadistic side. I love to torture and torment my submissives. To me the sounds of their scream is music to my ears >:) But of course I can be a sensual Mistress, it truly depends on my mood and whether the submissive deserves to see my softer side.

Sometimes I might tease the submissive with my sexiness. A caress on the face, softer voice and whispers. Get the submissive so revved up then deny him to cum :D Then seeing him try so hard to please me because he wants permission to cum. Haha, I love to control the submissive by their weakness, which of course is their dick.

~Domina Jade
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Got a Foot Fetish?

2006-03-24T18:11:00.000-05:00

So I had a really good time posing for my photo shoot with Robert Harvey today. Check out the preview:

I am always looking for different ideas for my photo shoot. So if you would like to suggest an idea, e-mail me or better yet give me a call.

~Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571

Fetish To Do List

2006-03-23T22:21:00.000-05:00

There are still some fetishes or activities that I would love to try but have not due to lack of opportunity or equipment. I have a fascination with medical play, but there are not too many submissives out there who have shown the same interest. Plus medical play would require sounds and speculums, well a lot of goodies which I currently do not have so it’s on my wishlist. There’s something naughty about playing nurse and doing a body examination. *Grin* Oh what fun I will have as I strap you down onto a medical table as I perform my inspections. Say “Ahhhhhhh”

Something else that I want to explore a lot further is suspension bondage. I want to learn the proper rope methods and suspend the submissive from a high ceiling. To see the submissive bound, gagged and blindfolded creates a warm stir inside of me. With the ass up in the air it gives me a wicked urge to spank it pink or maybe even blue. And once done with the spanking, the ass is ready to take on my strap-on as the finishing touch. But of course, before I make any attempts in this type of bondage play I have to make sure that I know my knots. With time and practice I will be able to.

I am sure there is still much that I want to do and explore. But for now I will be dreaming about the sadistic fun I will have with a submissive in bondage and medical play. There is nothing more satisfying than seeing the submissive squirm from being helpless and immobile.

~Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571

It’s not as bad as you think

2006-03-20T14:36:00.000-05:00

Recently I had a good session with a novice. The submissive was so new to the scene that I teasingly called him a ‘baby’ submissive. However he was quite eager to learn and experience something new. He demonstrated obedience, respect, and an open-mind – qualities that I look for in a submissive.

The dungeon has a throne chair that doubles as a stocks device. The submissive can kneel and place his head securely through the chair then his wrist is tied to the side of the chair. I had ‘baby’ submissive restrained, blindfolded and helpless as I tickled him with a feather and did some sensation play.

At one point, I told him that I’d pour hot wax all over his body. The submissive was quite adamant not to try. He already had preconceived ideas that it would burn the flesh and be a bad experience. To ease his doubts, I said that I will pour wax on my hand so I know how it feels. (Personally I love the feeling of hot wax on my body – but that’s another story) I then poured the wax on his hand and he was surprised that it was not as bad after all. So I was given the okay to continue with my wax play over his back. The candle was red, so it looked like he had a bloody back by the end of that scene. It was also fun to scrape the wax off with my metal letter holder (one of many pervertables that I have)

Overall it was a pleasant experience. The submissive was quite happy, well except for the CBT but then I don’t blame him. I am glad that I was able to change his mind about something he thought would be a bad experience. As a professional Domme, I will test your limits and push you to try new things. If you only limit yourself to certain activities then you might be missing out on other fun things and sensations.

If you are looking to try something new but you are not ready to try out physically then why not call a Domme for a phone session instead. Personally I enjoy exploring new ideas with a submissive, so if you have a topic to discuss in detail feel free to call me on Niteflirt.

~Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571

Anti-proDomme sites you SUCK

2006-03-12T02:37:00.000-05:00

So I get booted off two adult sites because I advertise that I am a pro-Domme. I was actually bringing in traffic to these sites either in blog format or direct links from MY website. And yet I cannot even mention what I do professionally? I say that’s complete load of crap.

On one site, apparently I am getting complaints for soliciting for business purposes. But in fact it was always the other person who initially sent me a message. I do not e-mail someone out of the blue to make known of my website. I do however respond to their inquiries and leave a signature with my website. So if this is considered solicitation or ‘spam’ then you might as well clear half of the profiles listed on your site. And rather than getting anal about pro-Domme profiles try clearing away the fake profiles instead.

Then my phonesex profile was closed for the same reason above, I left my website signature in a message to a client. Well all I can say is that your website was quite inferior to the phonesex company that I am using now and have been using before you. At least I can send PPV mail with attachments or clients can actually e-mail me back. You are so afraid of losing traffic that you won't even allow your operators to list their WISHLIST! And if my profile has been closed, why not delete it completely? It's still visable to your clientele but there's no operator to take the call. Oh and by the way I am still waiting for a response about the balance owed to me. I have not been paid for my services rendered. So are you going to be thieves as well?

Now I am quite leery about using personals or other phonesex companies. It’s all about their own gain and no one else’s. Besides from both accounts I was not at all impressed with the type of people who either called or emailed me. I might have gotten a handful of interesting submissives but not more than that. Looking back, it was not worth the time and effort to create both accounts. I should have simply dedicated more of my free time tweaking my website and listing on pro-Domme friendly sites like collarme.com. At least there is a section designated for professional Dommes. Plus it’s completely free to join.

Well I am finished with my ranting, now go support my website by clicking on every Mistress Directory site here.

~ Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571

Photoshoot with Laloux

2006-03-12T00:04:00.000-05:00

Since I am in a good mood, I decided to share my new photos taken by Laloux

Have fun viewing. Also check out my MM profile.

~ Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571

A Day of Pampering and Spoiling

2006-03-11T23:08:00.000-05:00

Today I was treated to a manicure and pedicure by my new submissive, slave georges. Actually I told him to treat me to a day of pampering the Mistress because I deserve it. Well, he couldn’t object to my request since he agrees that it is a privilege to serve me anyway.

While I was at the salon I sent slave georges to pick up a couple of things for my office. I am using this new program from Skype so I needed a chat headset. Stay tuned for my distance training programs for international submissives who cannot join Niteflirt

For what I thought would last one hour, the whole manicure/pedicure actually took a little over 2 hours. It started with a nice foot soak, followed by a foot rub. It felt so good to have my feet massaged and rid of any rough spots. Summer is right around the corner, so I will need to have my feet taken care of for sandal season. What a great way to tease all you foot fetishists ;)

Once everything dried off, I put on my boots but didn’t actually button it close. I arrived to the front where slave georges was waiting and told him to help me with my boots. He went down on his knees in front of everyone in the salon and went about his task. I got a couple of speculated looks. But I simply smiled because I enjoy this sort of public humiliation.

Next time I head off to the salon I plan on doing the all body pampering. That means body massage, facials, hand and feet care, hair cut, etc. I have to look smokin’ for my photo shoots right? And of course I expect my submissives to contribute to my “Pampering Fund.”

What followed was a lovely evening at my favorite upscale sushi restaurant Sho-dan located on Rene-Levesque. I enjoy the ambiance and service. Also the ingredients are refreshingly different from your typical sushi restaurant. They display their sushi beautifully – like an art piece that you don’t want to touch.

Overall it was an enjoyable afternoon. I love to be spoiled like a Goddess. On top of that I would like to thank slave georges for contributing $150 to my TOKink fund. To end the evening, I caressed slave george’s face with a hard slap because he craved my touch. I think that’s a lovely way of showing my attention, and slave georges seems to agree. Hehe.

~ Domina Jade
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My Fascination with Waxing

2006-03-08T17:00:00.000-05:00

Last saturday, boytoy j and I went to a private party. It was his first time going to a Montreal private party so I wanted to prep him for the party. I decided that it was time to wax the hair from his back. He had a patch of hair at the nape of his neck and down the lower back. I don't mind hair, in fact I love to scratch his hairy chest or warm my feet there but back hair is something I am not too fond of. So it had to go.

I bought my waxing kit with him a couple of days earlier so he knew what I had in store for him. He simply did not know when. boytoy arrived a couple of hours before the party, that's when I decide to cuff him with his leather restraints and tie his wrists over his head. I attached his ball gag harness over his head so my roomate could not hear him scream as I ripped the wax strips off his back. It was so amusing to see him shudder and yell against his gag. At one point I ripped two strips at the same time. THAT was a huge ouchie.

I love spreading the warm wax over his patch of hair, wait a couple of minutes, then quickly strip away the hair. *Chuckle* The poor guy had such thick hair that I literally ripped out the hair roots. I could see how the waxing traumatized his skin that it created little bumps as a result. The bumps went away a few days later and his back is a lot smoother now.

I have contemplated about waxing his chest, but decided against it because I love running my fingers through his chest hair. And if my feet are feeling cold, I can simply lay them over his chest and use him as a rug. Haha.

Later I rewarded his good behaviour for trying this experiment for me with a massage. So yes I can be wicked and nice at the same time. However I prefer to be wicked and hear my submissives scream ;)

~ Domina Jade
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0696571